And should I get tested for HIV/AIDS and STD?Long. But please read.
Here's the story: I met his guy in college, got to know him, went on a few dates, got to know him, fooled around with him a few times, being lead to believe we would have something. Not.
We had unprotected sex, basically. He put his penis in far to were I was having some discomfort since he wasn't on the small size and he pulled out, but he was in for awhile and rubbed his head against my part even before putting it in. He's also had sex with over 25 women, multiple times, and has way too many bottles of medications for saying he's in a lot of pain from being a war veteran. Like 35 bottles... which concerns me.
Anyways. I was all excited about what we did because I haven't had a positive sexual experience because I was raped at 13. Until recently.
- Ever since we had sex I've had dull to sharp to moderate able to tolerate aches and pains in my vaginal area. Like some ache on one side, some ache on the other side. Some are quick sharp pains that I've noticed in the last few weeks. And this started a few weeks into January. (it can't possibly be from uncomfortable sex for that long)
- Past month and a half, I've had on and off constant small fevers.
- Past week I've had a store throat on and off with no accompanied by cold symptoms. No runny nose, post nasal drip, etc. None of that. It came out of no where and is moderately ok to tolerate.
- All of a sudden vision difficulties. I wear glasses for long range reading, and I can see with them off, but all of a sudden even with my glasses on, words aren't as clear as they should be. It's like my eyes can't concentrate on lettering.
- Muscle and body aches. That last for hours and even after taking Tylenol Extra Strength. These are worse than the ones I get from standing at work for 5 hours which go away with Tylenol. The ones I'm getting are my back, legs, joints, arms ... everywhere.
- Soreness on both sides of my pelvic bone area for a week straight now.
- Short of breath or trouble breathing
- All of a sudden stomach problems. Like almost everything is either diarrhea or liquidy bowel movements. For the past few days I've had more than 2 or 3 bowel movements in a day.
- I've been feeling extremely wiped out. And I feel like complete crap.
- Feeling very lightheaded, dizzy, nausea.
- Bad taste in my mouth from acid reflux constantly and an upset stomach, and a light light whiteness in the back of my tongue, very light. And small raised bumps on the back of my tongue but aren't painful or sore.
- Seeing tiny raised bumps in some places of my gums.
- No swollen glands or sores.
- There are so many things I'm noticing that aren't normal. Especially the stomach issues. It's been three days now and I haven't been able to eat without it coming back as acid or going out as icky-ness.
- Weight loss. Constant. Like lbs lost in a day because of so many bowel movements :/
- Some muscle twitches and feeling weak in the joints or muscles.
- Stomach and abdominal pains.
- Constant pulsing headaches. Sometimes keep me up from sleep because they're horrible.
Also, I gave oral to friend few weeks ago and the head of his penis was very red, with brown on it which concerns me now... I don't know if he has anything.
Please help. Should I get tested?